Right, now I think I have to give people time to react and put through changes I have requested. A lot of complaints on the net are just people letting off steam and acting "over the top" to what may be every day mistakes. I want to be quite clear what is just people being incompetent, and what is abuse. I am already clear there has been abuse of power by some parties, here, but I need to pin it down - so when I make my complaints, I am quite clear who has offended, what they have done, and that I have the proof to back it up.
What I can say right now - being in the middle of changing ISP and my hosting services - that both companies concerned are behaving pretty badly - and Ofcom are kidding themselves if they think they have the situation under control.